Here’s the thing about love: It’s hard to put into words. Love brings up emotions that run the gamut from agony to ecstasy. Love can inspire us to accomplish some of the craziest and most amazing feats.
Love can make you happier than you’ve ever been, sadder than you’ve ever been, angrier than you’ve ever been. It can elate you and deflate you almost at the same time.
We can all pretty much recognize the emotions associated with love, but actually finding the words to explain those feelings is a pretty tough order. People have searched for centuries to find the right way to say “I love you” and to try to explain those butterflies in your stomach, that warm fuzzy feeling in your belly and that heart skipping a beat. And where you’ve love and won — or loved and lost. It’s ALWAYS worth it.
Crazy in love?
When you’re in love, you act different than usual. Your hormones are going wild, and you wake up and go to sleep thinking of someone else . Love can make us act completely out of character, and you might find yourself singing in the grocery store or going out of the way to pick up your love’s favorite food.
While there are plenty of non-verbal ways to express your love, finding that perfect love quote that sums up exactly what you’re feeling can be pretty amazing.
Luckily, some the world’s greatest artists, poets, musicians and hopeless romantics (like ourselves) have managed to articulate the magic of love using words so simple and perfect, sharing them can mean the world.
When you read each letter of the words that define “love” aptly, we feel this whole zoo inside our stomach. Sometimes, love finds us unexpectedly. It catches us off-guard. And isn’t it beautiful to love and to be loved? It’s a strange thing to discover and to believe that you are loved when you know that there is nothing in you for anybody but a parent or a God to love. Being deeply loved gives you courage. Knowing that you have someone who loves you for what you are and will always stand by you, how do you feel? It’s the best feeling in the world! ♥
Love isn’t always about a thing between “a boy or a girl”. It is infinitely beyond that. It means the bond between any person or any living being.
To be deeply loved, means a willingness to cut yourself wide open, exposing your vulnerabilities… hopes, hurts, fears and flaws. Hiding behind the highlight reel of who you are, is the real you and that person is just as worthy of love. There is nothing more terrifying or fulfilling, than complete love, it’s worth the risk… reach for it.
Sometimes, some “love” are worth it. It’s worth the risk. Even if you know that you don’t have “forever”, you still take the risk. Because you’re in love.
“When I say I love you more, I don’t mean I love you more than you love me. I mean I love you more than the bad days ahead of us, I love you more than any fight we will ever have. I love you more than the distance between us, I love you more than any obstacle that could try and come between us. I love you the most.”
We’ve all been hurt in love. Yet we don’t stop to take risk. We fall in love with the hope that “maybe they aren’t like them”. But some of us have this inevitable fear of falling in love again. We rather choose to be in a closed , confined space. We build walls around us. But maybe, we should take risks again? 😉
This famous quote would help you sort it out-
“We’re all seeking that special personwho is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems —the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for.
You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.”
So, let us just try to find the special person who is wrong for us in just the right way.
Spend your time on those who love you unconditionally. Don’t waste it on those who only love you when the conditions are right for them.
Let’s love endlessly as I do the same.
~Ankita Brahma ♥